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Jillian and Joshua: Wedding at Mansion at Bald Hill, Woodstock Connecticut

 

Jillian and Joshua are married!

The day began with big rain. Lots of it. I know Jillian was set on an outdoor ceremony so my heart sank for her a little. But — as it’s been all summer, the rain stopped in the nick of time! It was wet, but it didn’t stop these guys!

The Bridal prep room at the Mansion is so elegant, and showed off Jillian’s Alfred Angelo gown perfectly. Look at those cobalt blue shoes!:)

As Jillian was getting laced up, I flashed back to Gone with the Wind and Scarlett being tied into her dress. The curtains of the Mansion brought evil thoughts into my head.

This is why (imho) every bride should have a veil. Jill’s beauty is not hidden, but enhanced — and her husband will be the first to see it on their wedding day.

All the guests have gone down to the gardens, and it’s almost show time. The girls so beautiful — and so much fun to be around all night.

And the guys.  Sometimes their nerves are right on the edge (but not Joshua’s) and I really really like to have a little fun with them before hand. I’ve never been disappointed. Boys will be boys!

 

The rain held for the most part with only a bit of mist — but look how beautifully lush the grounds are. The Mansion is such a special place.

And the circle will be unbroken.

The walk around time. Quiet Time, and a time for reflection, laughter, and quiet jubilation.

 

And what a great party! Under the tent, with buffet dinner, great (singing and) dancing music.

The food is ALWAYS! delicious. Fresh baked bread, whipped butter, steak tips, fresh stuffed sole, turnips and carrots with a sweet glaze, turkey. Something for everyone.

And all the details Jillian worked on. The flowers — by Glimpse of Gaia — always stunning in freshness and color and design.  As Norm said “it should be required that every wedding have their flowers from Glimpse”.

Each bouquet had it’s own little tag.

and I LOVE this cake!

 

LOVE THIS!

I always ask — are you gonna smash?? No, no. Hmm, I think someone was hiding something from me, too funny. Who is going to admit to being the instigator, Jill?

This represents to me a great day. The dress is dirty (but can be cleaned). Jillian had no qualms about walking thru the wet grass, the mossy steps, to have the day of her dreams. Bravo, girl!

 

And at the end of the night,  some quiet time for reflection.

 

THANK YOU!

To Janet. As always, so helpful to making sure the day goes smoothly. You are a true professional.

To Norm. For seeing the light, and if it’s not there, for making it.

And to Jillian and Joshua!  A lifetime of blessings are ahead of you. Thank you for letting us share at the beginning.

 

Olson and Savage: Wedding at Eolia Mansion, Harkness Park, Waterford CT

Where do I begin??

Mike and Jillian have a grand passion for each other that transcends their wedding day; what began as a friendship 10 years ago grew into a bond that is evident from the moment I met them, a year ago.

And I believe that the humor that drew them together will serve them well. Little did I know what I was in for.

“Kleaf, can we do this, KLeaf, come here for a second.” I must have signed an email like that, (usually reserved for close family and friends) and MOlson, picked right up on it. We were going to be a good match.

“KLeaf, if you need me, just yell Olson and I’ll get there a lot quicker than if you call me Mike”. Me too, Olson. Done and Done.

A really rainy late September week prior to the wedding had us a little worried. We had planned on doing the formals prior to the ceremony to let Olson and Savage join right into the party. A few days before I emailed Mike saying it wasn’t too early to start the anti-rain dance. I know he was sweating. Lots of formals, and we couldn’t get into Eolia Mansion until just before the ceremony. Then, the night before the wedding Mike emailed me saying he had done the dance (and you’ll have to ask him directly in what manner he did so, since this is a family blog), and that it was going to be all right.  Good dancing will win out every time.

Do those eyes just melt your heart?

Doing the family and bridal formals before the ceremony relieves so much pressure to get them done when all anyone wants to do is get the party going.

And what a fun bunch the bridal party and family were! And how they forgave me when I’m calling out names, and everyone is right in front of me.

Mike’s  son Jonathan is a remarkable 12 year old. He’s got his own section below. Read on.

I LOVE the girls spirit! No cars for them from the Mansion to the Amphitheater! It’s not a short walk, either.

They braved wet grass, watched where they were stepping (if you get my drift) and all with laughter and good spirits.

How Jillian managed to walk without getting her dress trashed, and carrying their son Noah, I’ll never know.

He will be 1 next month.

Jonathan, Mike’s Son, 12 years old.

Not only did he have every person in attendance in tears during the service–but when it was his turn during the reception to toast his Dad and Jillian, he nearly brought down the house.

I cry during most every ceremony. Real, wipe away tears. But Jonathan was lucky — if he didn’t stop when he did I would have been mortified–gulping for air sobbing.

Even their lovely officiant had to turn away.

Mike, you did good raising that young man.

And the reception was incredibly fun!

Some of the characters that stepped into the PhotoBooth:

 

And did I mention the Grand Passion they share? Playful, respectful and full of love.

Thank you Mike Olson and Jillian Savage. May your lives together be as tremendous as the sunset on your wedding day.

Kim and Brandyn: Wedding at Goddard State Park, Quidnessett Country Club, North Kingston RI

Kim and Brandyn are married!

On a perfect August day, friends and family came from all over —  and Kim and Brandyn live in Chicago; Kim’s family lives in the Chicago area,  Brandyn’s family from Northeast Connecticut and they all came together at Goddard State Park for the ceremony and reception at the Quidnessett Country Club.

It was hot, so the guys were excused from wearing their jackets for the ‘formals’, and I think I made 6  new friends.

That, and they really enjoyed cutting it up.

 

I love the moment of apprehension before the ceremony gets underway. The girls were a little nervous — they had great shoes, had to walk across the bridge at Goddard and it’s always a little scary having 140 people watching! Kim’s girls did great, and I even made them laugh a little as they processed:)

But the really emotional moment is when Kim is left with her Dad, and ready to meet her groom. Always get a big clutch in my throat and a tear in my eye.

“so Brandyn, why are you the only one sweating?” A big laugh from their friends and family.

 

and just a little hamming it up afterwards, with the girls. Thank you all for your warmth during the day.

 

Kim and Brandyn chose a seashore theme for the details–perfect!

 

 

And humor all day:

A quick walk along the water brought this one.

 

 

A first for me: I’ve taken gum from a bride’s mouth, pinned up hair a moment before walking down the aisle, grabbed watches and too many hair foos to count, etc etc etc. But I’ve never let anyone borrow my shoes.

As we walked around my the water, Kim looked like she was hurting a bit after taking off her shoes to make the walking down the path and grass. The gravely sidewalk and road looked like it was painful, so I took one for the team.

THESE ARE NOT HER WEDDING DAY SHOES!:)

 

 

What to do while waiting for dinner??

 

Wish I knew what they were laughing about! Lisa, I hope to be as poised and gracious as you were today, when my turn comes next year.

 

GOOD CHOICE! The Red Sox Garter!

 

And a couple big family and friends groups! Thank you all for your patience while these were being arranged. I know it wasn’t easy for you.

 

And a couple of my real favorites of the day:

 

 

GIRL! you Rocked it!

 

Thank you all for your hospitality, openess and warmth throughout the day.

It was a pleasure getting to know your friends from Chicago, and your friends from across the street.

Pete and I wish you a lifetime of joy and happiness.

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